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posted by [personal profile] quinn222 at 03:44pm on 21/01/2006
Now that this film is finally moving into wide release everyone will be posting about it. I'm not going to review it. You've all heard how wonderful it is and maybe read the story. I'll just say I totally agree and that the film, Ang Lee and the actors should all go home with Oscars. What I'm going to do is review the audience.

My state is listed as a red state. We actually voted blue but it was counted red. Go figure. Anyway, the theatre where I saw it is in a solidly republican town. It was packed. At least half the people in there were men. The largest group of people there were heterosexual couples over 60. There were also younger couples, gay couples and women. Also it seemed as though many of the theatre employees were trying to see some of it from the aisles. In terms of M/F I'd say it was 50/50. I was really pleased to see that. Especially older couples. And you could tell from the reactions that the men really did feel for Ennis in particular. Or maybe just becuse they got more of a chance to verbalize for him.



When Ennis' wife said something particularly hurtful to him you could hear this huge reaction from the men in the audience. I loved that. I loved that they didn't care who he was in love with. They cared about him and felt for him when she said that.


Go see it. It probably seems like the kind of film that would translate well to the small screen but you'll miss a lot. The contrasts between their claustrophobic lives and the wide open spaces of Brokeback are not going to move well to a small screen.
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posted by [identity profile] shadownyc.livejournal.com at 10:13pm on 21/01/2006
Once the Critics' Choice Awards were announced, almost immediately followed by the Golden Globes Nominations, a huge variety of people of all ages began going to see the film here--all (adult) ages, sexual orientations, in groups, couples or alone. I guess people in CT didn't want to be left out of the conversations when BBM won awards.
 
posted by [identity profile] quinn222.livejournal.com at 10:53pm on 21/01/2006
It was on the front page of the paper yesterday that the film was finally showing in our area, so I guess interest has been high.
 
posted by [identity profile] asm614.livejournal.com at 10:14pm on 21/01/2006
I also found myself scoping the audience when I went to see it, and did find predominantly heterosexual couples.

My state is solidly red, although living in Las Vegas, one would think it to be considerably more liberal than it is. But I saw it the day that it opened at the only theater on my end of town that was to carry it, and it was pretty much packed, which was pleasing to see.

I only noticed a handful of gay couples, but the couple next to us was two older gentlemen, well into their late 60s/70s, and it was just really refreshing to see them, their banter and affection.

But generally speaking, I"m so thrilled that this movie is being received as it has, especially with the Golden Globe wins, and I really REALLY hope there is more to come with the Oscars.
 
posted by [identity profile] quinn222.livejournal.com at 10:54pm on 21/01/2006
I"m so thrilled that this movie is being received as it has, especially with the Golden Globe wins, and I really REALLY hope there is more to come with the Oscars.

Me too!
 
posted by [identity profile] court1429.livejournal.com at 11:32pm on 21/01/2006
It was also gratifying to me to see Capote win and also Transamerica. I am so eager for the day when sexual orientation is seen as no more or less interesting than being of one race or another or one religion or another. And I know that it will never be the situation in the eyes of some people, but I hope the notoriety factor keeps declining.
 
posted by [identity profile] spikegood.livejournal.com at 04:15am on 22/01/2006
I just got back and I have to say I was kind of shocked to see all of the older people in the theater. We did have to go out of town to get to see it but it was worth the drive. I was amazed to see the different amounts of people that were there and the reactions where amazing as well. I loved this movie so very much.

It really made me understand what my dad went thro back then being gay and in love with a man while he was married to my mom, but I can also understand my mom and the pain she went thro now. She was also a young mother with two small girls when my dad left her for a man- and later on killed himself. I wasn't expecting to come back from this movie understanding my own family more. Amazing!!
 
posted by [identity profile] quinn222.livejournal.com at 05:20pm on 22/01/2006
It really made me understand what my dad went thro back then being gay and in love with a man while he was married to my mom, but I can also understand my mom and the pain she went thro now. She was also a young mother with two small girls when my dad left her for a man- and later on killed himself.

This is what makes this film and also Far From Heaven so unbearably sad. You can't comfort yourself with, "It's just a movie." It isn't. It's the lives that thousands of people, millions probably had to live and still have to live in some places.
 
posted by [identity profile] spikegood.livejournal.com at 06:31pm on 22/01/2006
and yet there are so many many closed minded people that have no idea what love really is. They comfort themselves by calling it "following a religion" but if they really paid attention to the teaching- love, kindness, understanding- those are the gifts of having a higher power (god) to follow. Makes me so mad.
 
posted by [identity profile] tosca15.livejournal.com at 02:27pm on 22/01/2006
I live in Florida too and have seen it three times. The first time the theater was filled with 95% gay men of varying ages. The second and third times, there were also lots of hetero couples of varying ages. It's all been said very well, so I'll just say the film is a life changing masterpiece, especially to those who were formerly not familiar with gay love. At the sight of one very intense scene, the audience let out a collective gasp (on all three viewings), and I could feel the empathy for the two men come through in that gasp. The thought that this movie may win the Oscar is unbelievable!
 
posted by [identity profile] yarlung2.livejournal.com at 03:59pm on 22/01/2006
The film is in France for a few days and I went to see it yesterday evening.
I found it wonderful, moving to tears. Although I must say I had some difficulties catching up the dialogues between Jack and Ennis, I had to read some of the subtitles !
It's a superb story, I didn't know about Annie Proulx at all, and now I quite curious of reading some of her writings.

Yarlung
 
posted by [identity profile] babygotbass.livejournal.com at 05:07pm on 22/01/2006
The first time I saw BM in a in a bigger city back in Dec. there were a lot of older gay couples, but when I saw it again last night in a smaller Midwest town the crowd was totally different. Many couples over the age of 50, which surprises me a lot. Almost no 20-somethings. Perhaps the Globes gave straight men an excuse to go see it? Hehe.
 
posted by [identity profile] smartwomn1.livejournal.com at 10:36pm on 22/01/2006
Ennis, you know, has live-long relationships with his kids -- his ability to connect with others is important to me. He's not a one-note kind of guy, he's got relationships going elsewhere -- but they're all secondary to the great love of his life.

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